Terri Cole: Psychotherapist, relationship expert & founder of The Real Love Revolution

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Terri Cole is a licensed New York-based psychotherapist, relationship expert and founder of The Real Love Revolution. For two decades, Terri has worked with some of the world’s most well known personalities from international pop stars, athletes, Broadway performers and TV personalities to thought-leaders and Fortune 500 CEOs. She empowers over one hundred thousand women weekly through her published articles and blog posts, therapeutic meditations, online courses, and her popular Hello Freedom podcast. She has been featured as an expert therapist and master life coach on A&E’s Monster In-Laws, TED X, The Lisa Oz Show, Real Housewives and had a weekly radio show on Hay House Radio. Plus she regularly writes for The Huffington Post, Positively Positive, The Daily Love, and has been featured in Italian Elle, Origin and most recently was on the cover of Inspired Coach magazine.

What do you do best?

Listen and uncover dysfunctional or damaging behavioral patterns for clients (and anyone who asks) to create new, effective, and satisfying patterns, which lead to less suffering and more joy!

What makes you the best?

I’ve been called a cognitive intuit. I deeply understand human nature and the way the mind works and have always had an innate ability to recognize the underlying cause of an issue.

What are your aspirations?

To help as many people as possible live extraordinary lives that hopefully also adds value to our greater good.

Biggest Success?

I married a widower with three sons almost twenty years ago. My healthy, beautiful family (who are having families of their own now!) is my greatest joy, my destiny, my dharma and nothing makes me more proud than the humans they have become and the lives they are creating. (I would not consider this MY success per se but it does bring me the most joy and satisfaction in life.)

Most Challenging Moment?

Surviving cancer, losing my father and being held up at gunpoint within a year (many years ago).


I am fully responsible for my choices, my responses and my own happiness (and so is everyone else).

Favorite People/Role Models?

Deepak Chopra has profoundly impacted my life and my work. I have also been blessed to have AMAZING women/role models all of my life; from my mom and sisters to the crew of friends I’ve had since 2nd grade to a group of Crazy Sexy Women pulled together by one of my closest pals, Kris Carr. I am definitely a girl’s girl!

Favorite Places/Destinations?

My favorite place to go is our quiet, peaceful little Greek revival farmhouse built in 1820, located in New York State.  We live on three acres surrounded by woods with vibrant organic gardens to feed us during the summer, thanks to my husband, Victor.  It’s where I can exhale, be in nature and spend quality down time with my husband and family.

Favorite Products/Objects?

Coconut oil, for everything.

Current Passions?

I just filmed a virtual, ten-week course in Barcelona called the Real Love Revolution that I am super excited to share with the world. It is a culmination of my life’s work around love and relationships (starting with self-love). The course begins on Feb 1st, 2017 and anyone, anywhere in the world can participate from the comfort of her couch!