Felicity Warner: Author & Founder, Soul MidWives

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Felicity Warner is the founder of The Hospice of the Heart Trust, a UK charity that promotes holistic, compassionate and de-medicalised approaches to end of life care. A writer and broadcaster for 25 years she is regarded as an expert in communication all aspects of death and dying. She also runs "soul midwifery" courses for those wishing to be able to train in her methods.

What do I do best?

Gosh, that’s such  a  difficult one to answer…. My work as a Soul Midwife is what I hope I do best. I’m there for  people facing the end of life  and offering humility and love and compassion.  At the bedside I hope to be the best  and most loving and dedicated person that I can be.

I love teaching, healing, writing,  and being creative too, but  subtle energy work  is at the heart of this. I’ve been able to see energy since I was  a child- it’s gift that is also a curse at times. When you see energy you are constantly bombarded with a lot of information  such as being able to see illness within people, past lives etc which  can be very challenging.

What makes me the best version of myself?

I have lots of energy and I love people ,  and I have quite a quirky  sense of humour. I suppose the best version of my self  appears when I am centered and truly present. If I can achieve this, everything else follows. As my work can be  very challenging and intense,  staying in balance with a  sense of humour in tact is vital.

I spend as much time as possible in nature. I go hill walking, go wild swimming and ride horses  when ever I can. I love all animals.

I also love to work with plants in my straw - bale apothecary which is  situated in an orchard on our land.

What are my aspirations?

We live very simply ( friends laugh at my old rusty car which is 21 years young) and I feel very blessed.

My personal goals are to help bring an awareness of love and compassion to everyone and everything.  I’m afraid this might sound a bit fluffy but actually it’s a real discipline to hold love and tenderness as a focus for living, but it’s essential. Human beings are hard- wired to care for each other, but it’s a quality that can get buried underneath our busy lives.

Workwise  I hope that the Soul Midwives movement –(holistic and spiritual companions to the dying)  which I began around 15 years ago,  continues to grow and  that Soul Midwifery practice   becomes standard within hospitals and hospices and  through out the community.

When  I started Soul Midwives, I never thought it would become as big as it has. It’s all about helping when medicine has reached its limits, by  offering tender loving care for people at the end of life.

Another aspect of my work is blending and using aromatic oils for healing. I’m excited also because this autumn, my next book -Healing Soul and Spirit with Sacred Oils- will be published by Hay House. It explains my inner work as a Myrrhophore-( a woman who offers Myrrh). It’s an  esoteric healing tradition dating back to the temples of ancient Egypt. Mary Magdalene was a Myrrhophore. The sacred oils bring healing to us at a very deep level.

My Biggest Success?

Gosh, this is hard as success isn’t something that I dwell on much, but it’s … probably  manifesting the  idea of soul midwives and then actually  getting it out there

It’s been a mountain of work, but so worthwhile.. we now have  over 800  now in all corners of the globe.

I run the Soul Midwives School here in Dorset in the UK. It’s a beautiful setting and I teach many aspects of death care including massage, visulation, vigiling and  also working with sacred oils. I don’t know if this is a measure of success, but I  have  realized  that that when I die, SM’s is now  established enough for it to carry on. Many young people, both men and women  complete the training and taking out to their own communities.

I’m also happy to have written my books - A Safe Journey Home, Soul Midwives Handbook and my new book- Sacred Oils- Healing Spirit and Soul and being awarded a fellowship at the University of Winchester was a proud day.

Last year I was also  astonished to win  two national awards for my work and was nominated an Inspirational Woman of the Year by the Daily Mail at a big gala event. I’m quite shy, so being back home after all that peeling potatoes for supper, was just heaven.

Making a happy home brings me joy. Being married for 38 years to Richard  and raising  two daughters children and being a granny  makes me  smile.

My Most Challenging Moment?

Again this is difficult, but, giving up my well paid  day job 20 years ago  to begin voluntary work with the dying was a big decision. . Everyone thought I was mad but having supported six young women who had breast cancer, I knew  it was the only thing that I wanted to do. I had found my calling. It was an  exciting but also lonely time, but I have never regretted it. I feel very blessed to do work that I am really passionate about.

My most challenging moments are walking into a room where there is some one dying. Even though I have done it hundreds of times, it still brings me  into a state of humble anticipation and hoping that I can  soothe them.

My Motto?

It has to be “and all will be well and  all manner of things will be well”- it’s a 15th century  quote from the Christian mystic Julian of Norwich. For It’s a way of  knowing that although bad things might happen,  within the grand picture, it’s all going to work out OK. I probably say this to myself 10 times a day !

My Favorite People/Role Models?

I’ve always been inspired by others- Lucy Boston a wonderful children’s writer , Dame Cecily Saunders who founded the hospice movement , J S Bach, Sir John Taverner the composer whom I was  privileged to know,  Ghandi  and of course all the Soul Midwives I  work with, they are like family to me.

My Favorite Places/Destinations?

Being a Piscean I love water in all forms. So you’ll find me in ( or bedside)  wild rivers and streams  and oceans anywhere. I’m very affected by the energy  of water and like a golden retriever dog I  just have to jump straight in.

I have two utterly favourite places -Coverack a small Cornish fishing village  which is full of ancient Lemurian energy and Balmoral in Scotland where the royal family have their estate.. the energy there  feel just like champagne…

I also love and have a deep connection with the south of France and know that I’ve had past lives there

My Favorite Products/Objects?

I have a black opal ring that belonged to my Australian great grand mother- she found the stone, on a walk and had in broken open. It’s full of flashing emerald greens and blues and has very high energy.  A lucky £5 note, the last present my grand mother gave me before she died , two jay’s feathers, various essential oils. My favourites are Elemi, Fragonia and  Blue Fir.

My Current Passions?

Working with little known aromatic oils  is a lifelong passion. As medicines for the soul, they are both  gentle and powerful. They work with us at such a  subtle level, but very powerfully.  They can bring about deep healing  and enable us to be the most magnificent cosmic beings…they completely  amaze me with their  potential.

Apart from that ,it has to be horses. I took up riding last year and they have taught me so much. They have taught me more about  being in my body more than anything else. Horses are great energy  teachers and  “read” you head to toe . Being around them is extremely grounding.

Also music.. I like  every thing from Baroque, Jazz to James Taylor and dance around my kitchen to Irish folk music many evenings while we  cook supper.